Showing posts with label judge. Show all posts
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Monday, August 24, 2015

31 Day Challenge Part 2: Accepting One Another

31 Day Challenge Part 2: Accepting One Another

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A thought to ponder...
What if we didn't judge by appearances or differences. What if we just accepted and loved each other for who we are. I am so thankful to the Lord that he accepts us and he loves us for who we are.

In my previous blog post I described a 31 Day Challenge for "One Courageous Community" within our churches. Today, I would like to share another challenge. One truth that I think we can all say we struggle to follow is in Romans 15:7,  "Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, to bring praise to God."  How typical it is for each one of us to reject or to exclude each other because we might dress differently, behave differently, look differently, are from a different generation, the list can go on and on. When Jesus approached someone, he didn't look at their status, or their knowledge of the law, or how they dressed. He looked at their heart. He was deeply concerned for a person's spiritual welfare and the heart of the non-believer. He came for the lost.
As it states in Matthew 9: 10-13, Jesus came for the sinner and for the lost.
10 And as Jesus reclined at table in the house, behold, many tax collectors and sinners came and were reclining with Jesus and his disciples. 11 And when the Pharisees saw this, they said to his disciples, “Why does your teacher eat with tax collectors and sinners?” 12 But when he heard it, he said, “Those who are well have no need of a physician, but those who are sick. 13 Go and learn what this means: ‘I desire mercy, and not sacrifice.’ For I came not to call the righteous, but sinners.”
As brothers and sisters in Christ, we need to show love towards one another, encourage one another, and help one another grow closer to Christ. A church needs to be one unifying spirit in worshiping God. A church should not be a dividing spirit segregated into groups or individuals. A person should walk through the doors of a church and feel loved, welcomed, and a part of the church family. No one should ever feel unaccepted, hated or unwelcomed just because of who they are. How many of you have ever felt this way at a church? I know I have felt this way at a church. The atmosphere within that church made me not want to go back to that church. It made me want to give up on church altogether. Despite my unhappiness, I wanted to be obedient to God and to be obedient to my husband, whom wanted to attend this church. I also knew I wanted to keep learning about God, so I endured going to an unloving, unwelcoming church. There were times I felt excluded and left out of conversations. No one ever wanted to get to know me personally. A person should never feel this way when attending a church. A church should exhibit a Christ-like attitude and nature. 

So, look around on a Sunday morning or during a Bible study. Do you see anyone sitting alone? Is there anyone who is being excluded from an event, conversations, etc.? Are you judging someone because of their background or perhaps their past or are you accepting them for who they are? A wretched sinner just like yourself. Let us join in unison in building each other up, not tearing each other down. Let us join in unison in growing closer to God and reaching those who do not know Him.

Love and Blessings!
Carol





Sunday, May 4, 2014

Failing to Reach the Millions

Failing to Reach the Millions

The people that will be left behind during the tribulation will be people we failed to reach out to in brotherly and sisterly love. Throughout our lives, we have condemned, judged, and despised people. I am eternally grateful that my heavenly Father does not hate us, but he loves us ALL unconditionally. Just as he loves us, so should we love others, for we are to live for Christ. For if God did not love us, there would be no hope in this world, but because he loved us so much, he sent his one and only Son, Jesus, to take on the sins of this world. Jesus reached out to the multitudes of sinners, the lost, and the forsaken and gave them hope. Where many of us condemn and judge, Jesus showed mercy and love. Many of us shut the doors on people because of their past sins. We find them disgusting or vile. Yet, we do not know their true hearts nor the circumstances of their past. We see only what the enemy wants us to see. Only the Lord knows our true hearts, and He has changed the hearts of many.

Ezekiel 36:26
Moreover, I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you; and I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh.

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The Lord knew Paul's heart. On Damascus Road, when Christ spoke to Paul, his heart changed. After that event, Paul began a journey of sharing the Gospel with many. The Lord also knew Peter's heart, and Peter's heart changed when he followed Christ. He knew Matthew's heart, and Matthew's heart changed when he followed Christ. And why did all these men's hearts change? Because Jesus reached out to them, revealed the truth, and showed them love, kindness, and mercy. The enemy takes delight in stripping others from knowing his love and the truth. We are helping the enemy win his battle when we behave just like him instead of Christ-like.

We are ALL children of God. Because of His love, there is hope, and there is still time to reach the millions who do not know Him personally.

Heavenly Father,
Thank you so much for loving us and for sending us your one and only true Son to die on the cross for all of our sins. As we develop a closer relationship with you Lord, I pray that you will open our eyes and hearts and reveal to us how you want us to share that truth with the millions of people who still don’t know you personally. What you sacrificed for us, there is no greater love. Help us to draw close to you and depend on you at all times and to see others through your eyes. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

Ways to reach out to the millions

Pray your week is blessed!
Carol

Wednesday, November 13, 2013

Giving Labels

Giving Labels

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I am so thankful God does not nail labels on us as we tend to tack on each other in this world. Labels such as that person is a democrat, or that person is a republican, or that person is an alcoholic, or that person is a rapist, or that person is a murderer, or that person is woke, or that person is retarded, or that person is racist, or that person is a transphobe. Labeling people is something I am very guilty of and try to abstain from, but none of us can say we do not label people. Everyone is guilty of labeling one another, and this world is full of labels. 

I like one of the Urban Dictionary’s meaning of a label, obviously from a teenager, and it is not exactly the appropriate word choices or tone I would have used. However, the definition is clear, “pointless words (emo, goth, skater, preppy, poser, etc.) used to stereotype people because of what they wear or what music they listen to. Most people who label others have NO idea what they are talking about, in fact anyone who labels people are narrowminded ******** who have nothing better to do.”

As one can see, some labels can be very demeaning and very hurtful. Labels tend to stereotype and target people. The media is extremely influential at pushing labels onto people. It is no wonder people from jail or prison have such a hard time adjusting back into society when they get out as the media and people are so eager to place labels on them, showing little compassion or forgiveness. The people in this world would rather throw stones at “those kind of people” even if they have accepted Jesus into their life as their savior. What makes it even harder for them is  the enemy is bombarding them from all sides. The enemy hopes they will fall back into their previous lifestyle and give up all hope. The world hates them for their sins or ideology. How many of you would sit next to someone at church if you knew that person had murdered someone? Yet, just days ago, they accepted Jesus Christ into their life. I know Jesus would sit next to them. Would you let the label convince you to turn your back on them, condemn them, and judge them? Too many churches out there do not show acceptance and the love of Christ. And too many people in this world are focused on the things that hurt, offend, scare, or anger us. Labels are the focus when it should be Jesus Christ.

A passage in the Bible comes to my mind... A young woman was brought to Jesus by the Pharisees. The Pharisees had charged her with committing adultery. The law clearly stated that she should be stoned to death for her sin. They ask Jesus what should be done to the woman? His reply was, "he who is without sin, let him cast the first stone." Jesus did not condemn her but forgave her and told her to GO and SIN NO MORE. The Pharisees labeled this woman as an adulteress. They were blind to what Jesus was trying to teach them – that we are all equal in sin. We are all sinners, but God gave everyone a chance to be redeemed through his son Jesus Christ. Jesus died on the cross for ALL of us, not just some of us. We each have the free will to accept him in our life or not. So do not be ashamed of your past sins nor feel you are not worthy. Ignore those who label you and take heart, for Jesus is your rock, and he will help you weather ALL storms.

Jesus commanded us to love one another, not persecute, judge or label one another but to LOVE. As He states in John 13:34, “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another.”

I hope you all have a blessed week!
Carol